Pets & I

An ongoing series of pet playful series of information!

Do YOU talk to YOUR Pets, too!!!

July 10, 2019

My DOGS;

I talk to them all the time.. Do YOU?

Just waiting for them to answer back..

What are YOU saying to them, really?

Have YOU ever noticed that YOUR State of Mind was reflected in their Behavior??

I SEE this a lot....and notice...

My Inner Conversation, although NOT verbal, Effect my Pets and my clients Pets..

It's wonderfully exciting to KNOW, that YOU can Change YOUR State of Mind and quite 'Naturally' effect their behavior..

What ARE YOUR thoughts or Beliefs on this? Let me know, by commenting or YOU just have questions, below.

Here it is all spelled out for YOU...

WE all GIVE Life & that means YOU, to something all the time...

What that means for YOU is...

YOUR Pets are given life to from the States of mind YOU dwell in mostly...

What does that mean for YOU?

I want YOU to give Notice, throughout YOUR Day, what state YOU are in...

Pay attention to that!

Bring YOUR Awareness into 'How are my pets behaving, today?"......YOU will Notice the correlation and connect the dots.

Is this what YOU Desire? If, 'yes', that's great.

If, 'no", then move into a desired STATE.

Ask YOURSELF, "What do I Desire?" & "Who do I Desire to be?" And...

Embody that person, YOU Choose to be...

Notice from that state, how your pets are...

Please share with me through, comments or questions, what did YOU Notice about YOURSELF, and then YOUR Pets?

The Secret to Manifesting YOUR Pet's Behavior

August 6, 2019

The SECRET to creating desired behavior in your PETS IS...

First, Know what the Desired behavior is...

Get very CLEAR on this...

Secondly, IMAGINE a scene that IMPLIES that the behavior or action ALREADY IS.......IT'S Already a Done Deal..

Ask Yourself, What would it feel like, IF____ was already doing that_____.

Just Simply IMAGINE That...

Before I used to allow my Dogs to bark at me for their meals... I used to think it was cute...after awhile it was NOT desirable behavior..

Mind YOU, I Did NOT scream and yell at them...

I Became Clear on my Desire..

I did NOT desire them to bark and bark and bark for their FOOD...

This is EXACTLY what I DID...

I TURNED my Back on the FACTS......

Physically and Literally...

AND...

IMAGINED them both Being Quiet while I prepared their FOOD..

It ONLY took me a few Minutes with my Back to them, Imagining a more peaceful and silent FEEDING...

And it Was..BOTH were in the SILENT State just as Mommy was..

It is that SIMPLE...

For Everyone and EVERY THING.....


This is from Neville's Power.pdf


"I see someone, and they are behind the eight-ball financially. They have to pay rent, they have to buy clothes, feed themselves, and maybe they have obligations to society – others to feed, others to clothe. They may be a father or a mother. And I meet them, and they are not employed. Now, it tests my ability to put them into the state where they are gainfully employed. I bring them before my mind’s eye, and I represent them to myself as gainfully employed, and to the degree that I am self-persuaded of the reality of what I am seeing and hearing and doing – to that degree they become exactly what I am doing, all in my imagination. Well, if tomorrow or in the immediate present they actually conform outwardly to what I am doing inwardly, I have found the creative power."

Imaginative Cutting Dog's Nails

August 3, 2019

I struggled for a long time to cut my dog's nails for most of my life. 

I finally improvised and combined all my vast experience from pet sitting, the Dog Whisperer, and Neville Goddard and then applied this to what is now, a wonderful experience for both myself and my dog's. 


Our sessions of dremeling their nails is such a wonderful opportunity for us to all  bond, now.


They used to be out and out war games with them as they hated every minute of it and so did I and this went on for years until I came across Neville Goddard and he culminated my lifelong search of not only, Who Am I, but Who Do I Want to Be.


Through what I learned with Pet Sitting for these past 18 years, studying and implementing the Dog Whisperer, and the same with Neville Goddard, I pieced together a method of my own and how I related to myself while I was relating to my girls, while I cut or dremeled their nails. 


It took awhile as it used to be torture for all of us from my mental state and theirs feeling what I was saying without words and them picking this up from my demeanor and etc.


Now, it is a wonderful experience for them and myself and I am so glad as I can use this method of awareness in all areas of my life and it works miracles.


If you have any interest in this method please contact me and I would love to go over this peaceful way of taking care of our little ones, no matter what you are doing with them.  Any comments let me know , as well.


Peace in all we do and be!


Pet's Mimic Our Beahvior

August 10, 2019

Have YOU ever wondered to what degree OUR Pet's reflect our personalities or moods....

Ponder that for a bit...

I had STRUGGLED with my Dogs Nails for so many years...

Can ANYONE Relate???

I Manifested EASE and EFFORTLESS Cutting my Dog's Nails...

AND so can YOU..

Notice YOUR state of mind, before YOU cut..

Is it a desirable state or not?

Do NOT CUT, unless it is.. Did YOU Hear me?

YOU Are giving LIFE to whatever State YOU are in...

And YOU are Giving that State to YOUR PET, as well..

All our PETS are sensing beings and YOU do give LIFE to the States they Live in too..

Notice this for YOURSELF..

Pay attention to YOUR State of Mind and their Behavior...

Here's the thing....I say...

The following is ONE of my 'Old Shit State's'

And How I Got out of It...

I had for many years IMAGINED how horrible and stressful cutting their NAILS would be..

And then....I discovered that MY very own IMAGINATION was the Only CAUSE.

NOW, I IMAGINE my girls being so happy and frisky after our sessions...

And Guess What, THEY Are...

IT is Simple AS THAT!

Come & Join a Tribe that has FUN and PLAYS well with others and their PETS & learn to Discover YOU & YOUR Pet on Facebook in a Private Group called Meet the Real YOU!

Share what you have learned here or any questions YOU may have regarding any of this and Lets ALL Learn How to PLAY for Real.

Pets Reflect YOU!

August  13, 2019

My DOGS;

I talk to them all the time.. Do YOU?

Just waiting for them to answer back..

What are YOU saying to them, really?

Have YOU ever noticed that YOUR State of Mind was reflected in their Behavior??

I SEE this a lot....and notice...

My Inner Conversation, although NOT verbal, Effect my Pets and my clients Pets..

It's wonderfully exciting to KNOW, that YOU can Change YOUR State of Mind and quite 'Naturally' effect their behavior..

What ARE YOUR thoughts or Beliefs on this? Let me know, by commenting or YOU just have questions, below.

Here it is all spelled out for YOU...

WE all GIVE Life & that means YOU, to something all the time...

What that means for YOU is...

YOUR Pets are given life to from the States of mind YOU dwell in mostly...

What does that mean for YOU?

I want YOU to give Notice, throughout YOUR Day, what state YOU are in...

Pay attention to that!

Bring YOUR Awareness into 'How are my pets behaving, today?"......YOU will Notice the correlation and connect the dots.

Is this what YOU Desire? If, 'yes', that's great.

If, 'no", then move into a desired STATE.

Ask YOURSELF, "What do I Desire?" & "Who do I Desire to be?" And...

Embody that person, YOU Choose to be...

Notice from that state, how your pets are...

Please share with me through, comments or questions, what did YOU Notice about YOURSELF, and then YOUR Pets?

Come and JOIN A Tribe that has FUN, PLAYS well with others & their Pets & learn to Discover YOU and YOUR Pet on Facebook in a Private Group called Meet the Real You.

Share what you have learned here or any questions YOU may have regarding any of this and Lets ALL learn How to Play for Real.

Pets Are Manifested by Us!!

September  8, 2019

The SECRET to creating desired behavior in your PETS IS…

First, Know what the Desired behavior is…

Get very CLEAR on this…

Secondly, IMAGINE a scene that IMPLIES that the behavior or action ALREADY IS…….IT’S Already a Done Deal..

Ask Yourself, What would it feel like, IF____ was already doing that_____.

Just Simply IMAGINE That…

Before I used to allow my Dogs to bark at me for their meals… I used to think it was cute…after awhile it was NOT desirable behavior..

Mind YOU, I Did NOT scream and yell at them…

I Became Clear on my Desire..

I did NOT desire them to bark and bark and bark for their FOOD…

This is EXACTLY what I DID…

I TURNED my Back on the FACTS……

Physically and Literally…

AND…

IMAGINED them both Being Quiet while I prepared their FOOD..

It ONLY took me a few Minutes with my Back to them, Imagining a more peaceful and silent FEEDING…

And it Was..BOTH were in the SILENT State just as Mommy was..

It is that SIMPLE…

For Everyone and EVERY THING…..

This is from Neville’s Power.pdf

“I see someone, and they are behind the eight-ball financially. They have to pay rent, they have to buy clothes, feed themselves, and maybe they have obligations to society – others to feed, others to clothe. They may be a father or a mother. And I meet them, and they are not employed. Now, it tests my ability to put them into the state where they are gainfully employed. I bring them before my mind’s eye, and I represent them to myself as gainfully employed, and to the degree that I am self-persuaded of the reality of what I am seeing and hearing and doing – to that degree they become exactly what I am doing, all in my imagination. Well, if tomorrow or in the immediate present they actually conform outwardly to what I am doing inwardly, I have found the creative power.”

PLEASE Share YOUR Stories in the Comments..

Let us PLAY together and CREATE All our Desires forthwith…

Bond Between Human & Pet

September 9, 2019

The bond between Human and their Pets are Life Changing.

Have YOU ever really noticed that?

Since my Awareness has changed, I pay special attention NOW, with my PETS and NOTICED this BOND more than ever.

I have Stopped and taken the Time to just watch them on their level.

What I mean is I actually, get down on the ground at their level or point of view and just BE with them.

I have Pugs mind you so, down I go.

Their perspective down there is quite unique for them as I had never looked UP from down there like they do.

YOU should try it sometime.

It has been the GREATEST Bonding experience I have ever had with them.

Why I mention it now is because I have spent at least their 13 years of my 20 years in Pet Care doing this with my Client's Pets over the years and had missed spending this special time with my own. Believe me I have had some moments but, NOT like NOW.

PLEASE take TIME out and Just Simply BE with YOUR little ones. Not to just get it done but,

JUST BE WITH THEM at Their LEVEL.

YOU and YOUR Pet will LOVE this For Real!!

Follow up with comments in here and how this experience was for YOU and YOUR PET.

I have a FB pet page and would love for you to like, comment and give feedback.

Come Join us @ PetEx; Pet sitting services

My Pug and I

September 10, 2019

Cheyanne is one of my Pugs,

Since I was introduced to Neville Goddard a few years back, I noticed my dogs more than I ever did before.

Perhaps because I was so busy chasing after money so I can take care of them better that I totally missed the boat. I mention this because most of you will relate this to a child.

For me, I know pets better than humans and am OK with this. This has been better for me and I am alright with that.

Cheyanne is just watching and waiting for me. She’s just wide awake and staring at me., like she knows something. Maybe like people they also, come into and out of our life’s to take us places within our very own Selves and teach us who we are or even who we can be if we so desire to be. Just to watch them as I never did before because I was so busy trying to make more money so I could take better care of them has really been an eye opener for me. I suppose having or raising children is the same point of reference too. And you can miss those precious moments of life by keeping busy because most of us have forgotten why we are here or who we are.

I am so glad to have had these moments out of time with my girls to just simply be with them or really with myself that’s with them. It’s a whole new different perspective & a new reference for a new life, if you so desire.

I wrote this in my Journal where I go back and find the Gold that is defining me moment by moment out of Time.

It gives me great pleasure not only to write but, to be able to go back and re-read these words that I had written and feel those words as alive and I can actually fall back into the storyline and really get to experience them all over again. I mostly go back to inspire myself as some days I had lost myself and from my very own words, I get to come alive over and over again, by my very own words that I had given a life to. That’s how I get to Discover myself through experiencing my words over and over again and what a ride it has been these last several years since I discovered Neville Goddard and thereby discovered MY Very Own Self along with my wonderful relationships with my own Pets as well as my Client’s.

PLEASE take TIME out and Just Simply BE with YOUR little ones. Not to just get it done but,

JUST BE WITH THEM at Their LEVEL.

YOU and YOUR Pet will LOVE this For Real!!

Follow up with comments in here and how this experience was for YOU and YOUR PET.

I have a FB pet page and would love for you to like, comment and give feedback.

Come Join us @ PetEx; Pet sitting services

10 Things Your Dog Would Tell You

September 18, 2019

10 THINGS YOUR DOG WOULD TELL YOU...


1. My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be painful: remember that before you get me.

2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.

3. Place your trust in me- it is crucial to my well being.

4. Do not be angry at me for long, and do not lock me up as punishment.

5. You have your work, your entertainment,and your friends. I only have you.

6. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don’t understands your words, I understand your voice when it is speaking to me.

7. Be aware that how ever you treat me, I will never forget.

8. Remember before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily hurt you, but I choose not to bite you because I love you.

9. Before you scold me for being uncooperative, obstinate, or lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I might not be getting the right food, or I have been out too long, or my heart is getting too old and weak.

10. Take care of me when I get old; you too will grow old. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say: “I cannot bear to watch” or “Let it happen in my absence.” Everything is easier for me if you are there, even my death.

This is the Most Powerful Post I have seen in a long time.

Remember these words when you are considering getting a Pet..

I am going to Post some of these heartfelt comments as We all need to Hear about the Beauty of our Pets passing and really embrace this part as well as the living part.

It's a Natural Order of things and we all need to see its Beauty, too...

Here at PetEx pet sitting services we honor the whole journey together if You so desire.

I have a FB pet page and would love for you to like, comment and give feedback.

Come Join us @ PetEx; Pet sitting services


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10 Things Your Dog Would Tell YOU - Stories of the Journey

September 18, 2019

Here are the responses of Stories of Losing Our Fur-Babies and the Journey thereof..

Losing OUR PETS is a Part of the JOURNEY with them..

Be Prepared..


A Story of Loss

Every person who adopts a puppy/dog should have to read this BEFORE they sign the papers. It's a commitment for the ENTIRE life of the animal. And make sure you have a backup plan if something should happen to you so your pet doesn't end up in a shelter. I lost my husband to cancer 1 year ago. One of my children is in College...I don't know what I would have done if I didnt have my precious pups! They keep me going...get me up and out at the crack of dawn for their day to begin whether I want to or not. Besides our daughter, there is no greater love in the world than the unconditional love they give!

Here at PetEx pet sitting services we honor the whole journey together if You so desire.


Another Shared Story


I have two little boys and YES are lap dogs. When my husband died they laid on his  bed never barked or squirmed . They just laid there and tears ran down their little faces. They have been my best comfort in the past two years. I don't know how I would have. Managed without them.



Losses are just a part of the living and I will be posting more of these stories.

I will be changing the names and such, but thought if we could discuss this openly then we can share their life's, too.


Your Pet Care Provider, 

Mary Hils


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